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Saturday, November 10th, 2007
4:01 pm
I am seeking some advice.
I'm trying to come up with more ideas on how my mistress can give me
humiliating tasks and punishments but I'm deployed in Iraq so that puts
in quite a few complications.

Don't know if anyone is still active in this group, but I'd be happy to
share more information to get some ideas.
Tuesday, September 25th, 2007
1:13 am
Stand Up and Be Counted!

Stand Up and Be Counted!

Participate in the Survey of Violence & Discrimination Against
Sexual Minorities

September 19, 2007, New York, NY - Susan Wright and Larry
Iannotti would like to announce the launch of the second national
Survey of Violence & Discrimination Against Sexual Minorities,
being conducted in cooperation with the National Coalition for
Sexual Freedom. This survey includes all of the questions asked
on NCSF's ground-breaking 1998 Violence & Discrimination Against
Sexual Minorities survey, and includes new questions on personal,
business, and Internet discrimination experienced by BDSM-leather-
fetish practitioners.

The link to the survey is on NCSF's website: www.ncsfreedom.org

Please take a minute to fill out this anonymous survey even if
you have not been a victim of violence or discrimination.
Demographic data and information about participation in a variety
of BDSM-leather-fetish activities are also being gathered. This
survey will be distributed for one year, and the results will be
released in early 2009.

The results of this survey will be analyzed and compared to the
1998 survey, which found significant discrimination and violence
occurring against BDSM-leather-fetish practitioners. The data may
be used in court obscenity cases to prove that sexual minorities
have been chilled on the Internet because of fear of prosecution.
The survey also includes space for individuals to write about the
discrimination they have faced, which will be helpful in
illustrating the consequences of the negative stereotypes about
BDSM-leather-fetish activities.

The survey is available on Survey Monkey (a secured survey
hosting website that is used by the professional community) and
can be accessed through the NCSF website: www.ncsfreedom.org You
can contact surveybdsm@gmail.com to receive hard copies for your
event or to distribute to your members.

Please help this community-wide effort by sending this
announcement to your email list.


Larry Iannotti, LCSW, is a professional social scientist and
practicing therapist getting his doctoral degree through the City
University of NY. Susan Wright is the Media Spokesperson for
NCSF, and is accredited as a research assistant affiliated with
CUNY. For more information, please call Susan at 917-848-6544, or
Larry at 212-465-1917.
Monday, August 20th, 2007
7:42 am
mistresses have secrets too
Fair warning, this greeting is going to be crossposted to several communities as a general introduction.

My handle is Miss Merci Belle and I am a 27 year old female living in the Midwest. While I do have two bachelor degrees I've learned that there are only three loves in my life - my husband, my writing, and kink.
5 am posting. Forgot to cut. Sorry!Collapse )
Friday, July 13th, 2007
3:01 pm
Recently, my husband and I got back into D/s after a long absence. Today is the first time he's asked me to step outside a single scene and construct "an event".

I'm surprised and delighted at how quickly we've begun to delve back into D/s. Hubby came to me this morning before leaving to work and asked if we could play tonight. I, of course, said yes. Then he shifted gears and said that he might not be in the mood to play after work, that he might need something to keep him thinking about it to stay in the right mind frame, so he went to work today wearing a ring and (loose) string tied around his cock.

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God I hope he disobeyed on purpose! *grin*
Monday, May 21st, 2007
5:27 pm
Prison camp for (female) subs/slaves
Assume you would like to send your (female) sub/slave to "prison like" training/punishment camp. How you would like to have it arranged?

You are woman and feel submissive like a real slave and you want to take part in a such adventure. How it should look like?


Saturday, February 10th, 2007
3:33 am
Thoughts, Experiences?
My pet and I have been discussing chastity at length recently. She is enamoured with the idea and I must confess I'm intrigued by it as well. My problem is this, having no experience with them and being away on business for extended periods, I am more than a little concerned with leaving her in any of the various belts we've seen.

Who among you has done something of this sort? I have seen belts that allow normal bodily functions, but I'm still curious as to the actual day to day of this particular type of play.

Thanks in advance.
Friday, January 26th, 2007
1:26 pm
so my boyfriend is in the Marines...and we are both into role playing, age play and spanking and bondage and such.
however, i think he is afraid that hes going to hurt me too much because he is so much stronger than me.
we dont see each other often, but when we do we try to do different sexual things, but we always just end up fucking because were so horny from not seeing each other.
anyone have any advice on how to get him to not be so scared...even if he doesn't admit it?
Monday, January 8th, 2007
8:04 pm

take a look...u may like it.
Friday, October 13th, 2006
12:39 pm
This Slut's Introduction
I have been a submissive for a very long time now but just recently decided to join some more communites for better insight. My Master and I have been together for almost two years now and are a very intense couple. Not only do we both live the bdsm life, but we are both also furries. (you can find out more here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Furry_fandom) We actually met on a furry role playing game called Furcadia. Slowly as we started to talk we began to explore bdsm and all that it has to offer us. And we both found ourselves so happy and comfortable with it, it was like a puzzle piece falling into place. And I know that is how it's like for a lot of people. Master and I have explored a lot together, but it's only been long distance. However, that will be chaning. Master and I are meeting in Janurary at a furry convention. (FurtherConfusion.com) Actually I have both of our planes arriving in the same city BEFORE our arrival city. So we will meet in his town of Salt Lake and then fly over to San Jose together. How am I feeling? It's still 95 days away, and yes I am counting, so I don't really think it has fully set in yet.

About myself, I am 21 and live in the United States. I know there are a lot of you that live in the UK. And I am just looking to meet friends and socialize about this lifestyle each of us has chosen or is exploring as an option.

My lifestyle seems to be different that a lot of people's because I happen to be a furry as well. If anyone would love to chat, please feel free to IM me on MSN at Starlitrunaway@hotmail.com or AIM Starlitrunaway. I love to chat, and I am looking to make some friends who understand me and don't just look at me weird when I say 'bdsm.'

I  look forward to reading people's thoughts, ideas, and questions in all of the communities I have joined.

x-posted ... a lot.
Saturday, September 2nd, 2006
9:01 pm
Hello community!
i just found this community and think it fits right in with my journal entry for today - me being punished for disobeying my Master.

my journal can be found here: http://slut_bitch.livejournal.com/

i'd love to get feedback and to make new friends here. Add me and i'll add you too.

take care all

Current Mood: crappy
Tuesday, June 6th, 2006
6:48 pm
Frustrated, and needing advice
I'm having a difficult time right now and need some advice. I've written about it in my journal - http://sorebottom.livejournal.com/2378.html - and I'd be grateful for any advice or support. People wishing to add me are also welcome to do so, as it would be nice to meet a few new spankos :)

(x-posted to a few places as I wasn't quite sure the best place to ask)

Current Mood: frustrated
Friday, April 28th, 2006
3:25 pm
I am going to be interviewing at a dungeon for a position as a dominatrix soon. I have never done that before...so I have a few questions:
What should I wear? Granted, I will be walking around before because, as most dungeons do, I will not get the address until I am near by. Should I wear what I would if I get a job there, or just professional with maybe my normal "gothy" twist?
How should I act? Normally when I go to an interview for anything, I am very polite and curteous...should I bring any of my domme side out?
Any question I should ask that I might not think of on my own?

thanks in advance!

Tuesday, January 17th, 2006
8:02 am
Hello. I am a long time reader of this journal, but first time poster, so I suspect that an introduction is in order.

I am a 41 YO straight male who has always been quite dominant in my relationships, but did not identify as a "Dom". I felt, however, and still feel as though a woman should by right submit to her man, but of her own free will because of her devotion to him, and not due to the threat or intimidation of physical harm. I do not condone nonconsensual violence against women for any reason. This has been my experience with most, if not all, of my past relationships. As I am now learning, I have been, and will continue to be a dominant person. I am uncertain if this will lead to my eventual being blessed with the title of Dom, but I have begun the road less traveled in my self discovery, and search for the partner who blesses me with her trust, understanding of herself, and eventually her submission. I do not seek a slave at this time.

I currently reside in the Lakes Region of New Hampshire, and am seeking a partner for exploration and/or a possible relationship. I do not currently feel comfortable with a poly relationship, but have not had much exposure to this, so with the right woman this could be also be a possibility. The woman should have an oral fetish as I greatly enjoy receiving, as well as giving, be open to exploring new possibilities, and be willing to play in person, as I am not interested in an extended phone or internet relationship.

My past experience has been with restraints (cuffs, silk bindings), wax play, anal play, flogging and spanking (one of my personal favorites), food play, sensory deprivation, oral fetishes (both giving and receiving), leather of all types, ice cubes, clothing restrictions (picking her clothing, allowing or disallowing certain items), nipple clamps, outdoor and/or public sex, and toy play to name but a few of my more recent adventures. I have yet to meet a partner who would allow more adventurous play, and would like to explore a bit more deeply into restraints such as crosses, tables and the like, in addition to a gags, rope play and other forms of restraints.

I am not interested in breath play, edge play, branding, public humiliation, scat play or water sports.

I can be contacted by any interested women by replying to this post, or via my e-mail address on my profile.

Thank you,
Ice Cream Man
Wednesday, January 11th, 2006
10:21 am
Punishment Ideas
Tommorrow I will be punished for my last week failures. Please publish some ideas.


Current Mood: determined
Wednesday, October 26th, 2005
10:45 am
Master and I are looking around for a chastity belt for me. Does anyone know who is best to go with for long term. I've researched Neosteel, Access Denied,and Tollyboy Belts but this is my first so we're not sure which one to go with and which ones are really effective. Anybody help?
Monday, October 17th, 2005
2:46 am
Pleasure in administering punishments?
Hi there,
I am new on here, and was facinated with the previous topics and the quality of the replies. I am just starting out in a new relationship where we live some distance apart. I was put on orgasm denial, but..got a little carried away despite very clear instructions. I owned up to my Master, who has given me such a hard time verbally over the telephone!!

My question is; is it pleasurable for Dom/mes in punishing their wayward subs? It seemed that my Master really got off my tears and carried on reminding me of my lowly status due to me not obeying a very clear instruction.

Current Mood: contemplative
Tuesday, October 11th, 2005
10:10 pm
Masochistic Slave
Good day,

I'm in need of serious help. I'm in a relationship with a very interesting subbie: She enjoys and eroticises pain. However, she is also into Ds. It is pretty obvious that to use physical pain on her, like giving chocolate to a child who just broke your window, is just reinforcing bad behavior. Same goes for bondage. I also can not use any kind of abandonment or sending her away as that will cause her very serious psychological harm.

So here is the question, how can I punish her withouth giving her what she wants??? I'm in a bit of a creative stupor here as you can see.

Sincerilly yours,
Mr. Dmitri L. L.
Sunday, October 2nd, 2005
6:42 pm
Belting #2
I posted to a couple of journals recently about the first belting I had ever received. Well, if you enjoyed that story, this one is light-years better. It happened a couple of nights ago, and was the most enjoyable sexual experience I've ever had.

BeltingCollapse )
Tuesday, September 20th, 2005
8:22 pm
New communtiy for those in Central Illinois that have a kinky side

title or description

Please Join!
Sunday, September 18th, 2005
11:35 pm
Subbie Power!
::Transforms into a (GASP) slave!::
Dun dun dunnnnnn! o_O

All play aside, I've come across a rough conclusion. Although, in my experience, this has declined drastically as I flit through relationships, I've still taken note of this:

Does anyone recognize the pattern of creative punishments that submissive concoct? Perhaps it's my lack of wide range communication, or mayhaps I'm on to something. We've all heard the term 'topping from the bottom', and this is a petty point of view to that aspect, but how many of you has a Dom/sub that seems to come up with the cruelest or most creative punishments/games/rewards?

I'm trying to add in every variable, such as age, gender, prior experiences, etc., but one cannot fully calculate ever possible variable because each person is so unique. Despite this uniqueness, though, I tend to find that more slaves/subs formulate the wickedest/most rewarding of previous mentions.

Is this true with your Dom/sub, or do you find that you're the one with all the devious/convivial ideas?

As I've mentioned, it's decreased drastically to the point where I just mention a few ideas before Master picks it up and takes it to a whole new level if not creates a whole new idea concerning the subject. The change in dynamics from me being the creative one to Master being the malicious inventor of my worst nightmare-ish dreams is why I question how your dynamics function in this aspect.

(X-Posted in torturelust, male_dom, and ds_punishment)
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